Chapter 1 - Interpersonal Communication Competence

 Interpersonal Communication Competence

I wouldn't consider myself an excellent communicator. I often fumble over words and have a hard time expressing myself or knowing what to say, which is why I need to improve on my interpersonal communication competence. Since I started working with individuals, I have increased my communication skills. 

According to Reflect & Relate, "interpersonal communication competence means consistently communicating in ways that are appropriate, effective, and ethical"(Ch.1, pg.16). 

The first characteristic of interpersonal communication competence is appropriateness. As a gate attendant at a campground, I have to act appropriately when speaking to property owners, such as speaking in a friendly tone, and calling people ma'am or sir. 

Another important characteristic of interpersonal communication is ethics. When communicating, I'm never trying to hurt others with my words, and I make an effort to always be honest. 

The last characteristic is effectiveness. I don't get to spend much time with my mother, since I have a busy schedule with work and school. One weekend, I could tell she wanted to hang out with me, but I wanted to go to my significant others house. As a sacrifice, I stayed home and watched a movie with her. This shows how I reached a relationship goal with my mom and demonstrated effectiveness in communication.